Wouldn’t it be nice to wave a magic wand, and all of life is just how we wanted it to be? We are blessed with the gift of life but how we live it is up to us, and that takes effort and choices. There are consequences, hard lessons learned and happiness along the way, but ultimately it is in our choices that create the life of happiness we all desire. Sometimes we do not even know what we want or how to create this happiness, and wander around going through some sort of life motions that we learned from healthy or unhealthy example. Choosing the right way to create a life of happiness is quite the goal, but like anything else that takes time and effort, it is worth the journey to get there. I have gone through the ups and downs of not being happy in this journey of life, and have held onto the hope that God has a greater plan than I can ever imagine. Life has not been what I thought it would be as I contemplate it, but I am thankful for the life lessons of e...